Falling in Love is a Cooperative Effort

Why does a girl work months or years to change a man's habit and complain afterwards that he's changed? In the first place, you know who the hell he is and you still keep on trying and pushing to the limits. Remember, you can't change someone who doesn't see an issue in their life. Falling in love is a cooperative effort, you don't need to set yourself on fire to keep the other person warm. So, don't settle. If you don't like the menu, then leave the restaurant. At the end of the day, you'll get hurt... and blame 'all boys are the same'.